BLOG What is your daily creative ritual? Dec 4, 2021 Ta da! This is an announcement that I have finally finished Daily Rituals: How Artists Work, compiled and edited by Mason Currey. My sometimes-writing partner Patricia owned it first, and intrigued, I ordered it from a bookstore called Perfect Books, using a gift card given to me by another friend. (So, a perfect combination of … What is your daily creative ritual? Read More » Read More How to recover from creative rejection (according to me) Nov 20, 2021 “Sometimes you’re the windshield, sometimes you’re the bug,” has got to be one of the best lyrics from a Mary Chapin Carpenter song to which I have ever sung along poorly. It also sums up nicely the experience of being a creative person trying to find a place in the world for your work. Sometimes … How to recover from creative rejection (according to me) Read More » Read More Married to the Minister Event is coming up on Nov.29 Nov 5, 2021 It’s been another long year for people in ministry, and yes, it’s true, for the entire planet. In my work as a podcast host and editor of a magazine — and as a member of several Facebook groups for pastor’s wives — I am hearing again and again about weary pastors, and the families who … Married to the Minister Event is coming up on Nov.29 Read More » Read More Build a writing foundation before a platform Sep 23, 2021 I chatted with a young writer the other day, and she asked me how important it was to focus on platform building. The lack of a platform can keep a writer wide awake at 3:00am, eating grapes straight from her fridge. Platform, of course, is your visible, countable presence in the world — your spheres … Build a writing foundation before a platform Read More » Read More As we leave Covid behind Jul 2, 2021 My cat-watching days are almost over. When quiet settled across the land in general and Arlington Street in particular, I sat on my bed and looked out the window to where the only activity on our street was the curious cat across the road. I remember thinking that it had been a very long time … As we leave Covid behind Read More » Read More How to be with an old dog Jun 10, 2021 These days Dewey and I walk more slowly than we ever have around our neighbourhood. It used to be exercise for me, and now it’s more of a stroll of sniffing. Dewey starts out beside me and ends up behind me, tired. How do we love an old dog well? Old dogs are loved best … How to be with an old dog Read More » Read More Married to the Minister Event coming up Apr 26, 2021 I have something fun to share. On Thursday, May 20th, if you’re married to a pastor you are warmly invited to “Married to the Minister” a virtual gathering to be heard, seen and encouraged. Since the release of The Minister’s Wife: a memoir of faith, doubt, friendship, loneliness, forgiveness and more I have heard from so … Married to the Minister Event coming up Read More » Read More I’ve turned into a marshmallow Apr 19, 2021 About a third of the way through 2020, I attended a legal (then) outdoor gathering where I realized I might have a problem on my hands moving forward. Out of all the people there, the one person I had never connected with in that magical, soul-friend manner that we all love so much was the … I’ve turned into a marshmallow Read More » Read More The comfort of small habits Apr 6, 2021 The other day I spread sections of the newspaper I knew I was done with (business and sports, incase that’s not obvious) on a corner of our dining room table. I retrieved our little basket of shoe polish, cloths and brushes and grabbed my boots from inside our front door. It was time once again … The comfort of small habits Read More » Read More Reading while writing Mar 12, 2021 I may have told this story before, but once, when I was a kid reading in bed, my sister burst into my room to say “Your room is on fire you idiot!” Which wasn’t strictly true. It was just my beloved rabbit puppet which, in an early attempt at decor, I had sat atop my … Reading while writing Read More » Read More We should throw each other zoom calls Mar 10, 2021 The other night I sat on my bed, trying to look like I wasn’t sitting on my bed, and met online with a group of new friends. Almost everyone, as it turned out, was perched on their bed or sitting in their bedrooms. When houses are full, this is where women go to zoom. Megan, … We should throw each other zoom calls Read More » Read More Driving and singing and the playlist we made for us and for you Mar 2, 2021 The other day, when we were driving aimlessly around Ottawa, Brent turned to me and said, “What is the song in the whole world you would most like to hear right now?” “Jackson,” I replied, obviously. He quickly found it on Spotify and Johnny Cash and June Carter were there with us. “Well, go on … Driving and singing and the playlist we made for us and for you Read More » Read More 1 2 3 … 17 Next » SUBSCRIBE TO BLOG Receive periodic updates as I post new articles. Name* First Last Email* PhoneThis field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.